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Get a big pot of water boiling, and don't forget to salt it generously! This is where I always forget, honestly, and then my pasta tastes bland. Cook your elbow macaroni until it's just shy of al dente; it'll finish cooking in the oven. Drain it well and set it aside. You want it firm enough to hold up in that rich sauce, not mushy.
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In a large, heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven, melt the unsalted butter over medium heat. Once it’s all bubbly and fragrant, whisk in the all-purpose flour. Stir constantly for about 1-2 minutes until it forms a pale, golden paste. This is your roux, the base for your creamy baked mac and cheese sauce! Don't let it brown too much, or your sauce will have a nutty, darker flavor.
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Slowly, slowly pour in the whole milk, whisking continuously to avoid any lumps. Seriously, take your time here. I once dumped it all in at once, and my sauce looked like cottage cheese for a minute – oops! Bring the mixture to a gentle simmer, still whisking, until it thickens enough to coat the back of a spoon. It’ll smell warm and milky, a good sign!
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Take the pot off the heat. Now for the fun part! Stir in your grated sharp cheddar, Gruyere (or Fontina), and that little block of cream cheese if you're using it. Keep stirring until all the cheese is gloriously melted and smooth. Add the Dijon mustard, nutmeg, salt, and pepper. Taste it! This is your chance to adjust the seasoning for your perfect creamy baked mac and cheese.
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Gently fold the cooked elbow macaroni into the cheese sauce until every single piece is coated in that luscious, creamy goodness. I usually use a big spoon for this, making sure not to smash the pasta. Pour half of the mac and cheese mixture into a greased 9x13 inch baking dish. This is where I sometimes get a little messy, but it's all part of the fun, right?
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Sprinkle the remaining half of the cheese mixture (if you reserved some, otherwise just make sure it's even) over the top. In a small bowl, toss the Panko breadcrumbs with melted butter until coated. Sprinkle this buttery mixture evenly over the mac and cheese. Bake in a preheated oven at 375°F (190°C) for 20-25 minutes, or until bubbling and the topping is golden brown and crispy. Oh, the smell!