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First things first, get a big pot of water boiling for your macaroni. Don't forget to salt it generously – like, really generously, until it tastes like the ocean. This is where the pasta gets its first layer of flavor, and honestly, I always forget to do it properly. Cook it al dente, maybe a minute or two less than the package says, because it'll finish cooking in the oven. Drain it, but don't rinse it; we want that starch for the sauce.
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In a large, heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven, melt your butter over medium heat. Once it’s all bubbly, whisk in the flour. You’re aiming for a pale, golden paste, like a sandy beach. Cook it for about two minutes, stirring constantly, to get rid of that raw flour taste. I once rushed this part, and the sauce had a weird, pasty aftertaste. Not great, not terrible, but definitely not what we're going for.
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Gradually, and I mean *gradually*, pour in the whole milk, whisking constantly to avoid lumps. This is the part that feels like an arm workout, but it’s so worth it! Keep whisking until the sauce starts to thicken and coats the back of a spoon, maybe 5-7 minutes. It'll get all smooth and dreamy. The smell at this stage is just so comforting, a hint of butter and warm milk filling the kitchen. Don't walk away, or you'll get a skin on top, oops!
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Take the pot off the heat. This is important! Now, stir in your grated cheddar and Gruyère cheeses, a handful at a time, letting each batch melt before adding the next. Add your smoked paprika, nutmeg, salt, and pepper. Keep stirring until it's all gloriously smooth and gooey. Taste it! Does it need more salt? More pepper? This is your kitchen, your rules. I sometimes add a tiny bit more paprika, just because I love that smoky kick.
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Pour the cooked macaroni into the cheese sauce. Stir gently until every single noodle is coated in that rich, creamy goodness. It’s a beautiful sight, honestly. Transfer this cheesy pasta mixture into a lightly greased 9x13 inch baking dish. Make sure it's spread evenly, because nobody wants a dry corner. My kids always try to sneak a spoonful at this stage, and who can blame them?
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In a small bowl, toss your panko breadcrumbs with a tablespoon of melted butter. Sprinkle this buttery crumb mixture evenly over the top of your mac and cheese. Pop it into a preheated oven at 375°F (190°C) for about 25-30 minutes, or until the topping is golden brown and crispy, and the cheese sauce is bubbly around the edges. Oh, the smell when it comes out! Pure happiness. Let it rest for a few minutes before serving, if you can resist.