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First things first, get a big pot of water boiling. Don't forget to salt it generously; this is where the pasta gets its initial flavor! Cook your elbow macaroni just until it's al dente, maybe a minute or two less than the package says. It's going to finish cooking in the oven, and we don't want mushy pasta. I always forget to salt the water the first time, then remember halfway through and have to add more. Drain it, but don't rinse it! That starch helps the sauce cling. You'll see, it makes a difference.
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In a large saucepan or Dutch oven, melt your butter over medium heat. Once it’s all bubbly and happy, sprinkle in the flour. Whisk, whisk, whisk! Keep stirring for about 2-3 minutes until it forms a pale, golden paste and smells a little nutty. This is your roux, the magical thickening agent. My first few times, I walked away for a second and it got too dark, giving the whole dish a weird, burnt undertone. Stay with it, it's worth the attention!
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Now for the fun part! Slowly, and I mean slowly, pour in the whole milk, whisking constantly. This is key to avoiding lumps. Keep whisking until the sauce starts to thicken and smooth out, about 5-7 minutes. It should coat the back of a spoon. It's so satisfying watching it transform into this silky, glossy base. Don't rush this, hon; patience here means a perfectly creamy Southern Baked Macaroni and Cheese. The aroma starts to build, signaling good things are coming!
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Take the pan off the heat before adding your grated sharp cheddar, Monterey Jack, and smoked gouda. Stir until all the cheese is completely melted and the sauce is smooth and luxurious. Stir in the Dijon mustard, smoked paprika, garlic powder, salt, and black pepper. Taste it! Adjust seasonings if you need to. This is where the sauce really comes alive. I always sneak a little spoonful here – it’s just too good to resist!
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Pour your cooked macaroni into the cheese sauce. Stir gently until every single noodle is coated in that luscious, cheesy goodness. Transfer the mixture to a 9x13 inch baking dish. I usually have a little bit of sauce clinging to the sides of the pot, which I just scrape right in. It’s all part of the kitchen chaos, right? Spread it evenly, making sure no noodle feels left out.
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Sprinkle a generous layer of extra sharp cheddar over the top. This is what gives us that irresistible golden, crispy crust. Pop it into a preheated oven at 350°F (175°C) for about 25-30 minutes, or until it's bubbly around the edges and gloriously golden brown on top. The smell is going to be incredible, seriously. Let it rest for 10-15 minutes before serving. This helps the sauce set a little, making for cleaner scoops. Trust me, waiting is the hardest part!